Sorority Blogger

I have spent so much time of my life wasted on fake friends. The problem is, I rarely realize they're fake friends until I've already spent months or years of love and effort on these relationships only to watch them fail. Then, when these relationships fail, I spend far too long missing these people who were never truly my friends to begin with. This has made it harder for me to form connections and put in the effort from fear that new friends will be fake as well, but I'm working on it. Here are some examples that I've discovered are fake friends. The Friends That Are Only There In The Good Times When everything is going right in your life these friends are right there with you celebrating. However, when times get tough, and you need a shoulder to cry on or someone to drink wine, eat ice cream and pizza with, these friends are suddenly nowhere to be found. These friends are still fun, and you may not want to cut all ties with them, but know that they will never be...

So with Valentine's Day having just passed, love is in the air. This post is dedicated to the question I got asked throughout college. "Why don't you ever date ' frat boys' "? Well, my answer is simple.  And comes in two parts.  1. Most of the time in college  I had my sights set on only one guy  ( my boyfriend) who I've known forever.  And no he wasn't (and isn't) Greek.  Scandalous I know. 2. For the rare periods of time that  I was single and ready to mingle,  I had some rules. First of all,  I was over dating 'boys'. High School  was over, and I'd raised my standards  with my age.      Now, I didn't have anything against  guys in fraternities; I just wasn't about  to date anyone that acted like a child  (fraternity or not). I had grown up, I'd  seen the way I felt guys were supposed  to act towards their women, and I wasn't  going to settle for anything less.    ...